The day of this shoot, Ryder texted me to confirm & let me know that he was rather nervous. I could feel his nervousness when we began the shoot. But as I said to him afterward when he inquired as to how he did, per se, I knew in the shoot when he physically & mentally let go of his reality in the moment & got into his sexual energy. It's funny how that can sometimes be like flipping a switch.

Apparently, I've made a new friend in Ryder. As soon as the cameras were off & Ryder was headed toward the shower, he commented, "I know that I'm 'financially bi' & everything, but that was the best orgasm I've ever had in my life." I explained to him that what they say is true. A man knows how to give pleasure to another man, and a woman knows how to give pleasure to another woman because they, respectively, know each other's bodies & what the sensual eroticism feels like.

After Ryder came out of the shower & was dressed, he stated that he'd like to hang out sometime outside of the context of a video shoot. In one of my email back to him in the run-up to the shoot, I replied, "your maturity impresses me." For 24 years of age, he does exude a level of maturity that I don't often see in someone his age. Beyond that, he's got a pretty wicked sense of humor that makes me laugh. Other than Tyler Aston & Ken Mack, I've not really hung out on a personal level with any of the CAUSA guys (always choosing to keep business & pleasure separate). Oh, what the hell… Drinks one eve with Ryder would be fun.

With his Wilson brothers good looks, naturally toned large build, and natural body hair with a shaggy top, Ryder is hella sexy, and hopefully, through his work with CAUSA, can find the self-confidence to venture out & find a girlfriend.

For you & for now, please enjoy Ryder's CAUSA debut!